Conversation about it has always begone with a variation of the question "why did you cut your hair"? Most of my siblings have either already gone completely natural or want to as well. The friends that I have run into say it is "different". I don't know what I was expecting, but most people seem to want to go natural but are mainly held back by the amount of effort involved in maintaining a head of natural hair. The other concern is the limited availability of hair products.
Some people have expressed reservation about the way I wear my hair i.e my dad. I'm not exactly a neat freak when it comes to how I wear my hair, so I probably look a bit wild in a country where a somewhat conservative appearance is still the norm. I don't particularly think I have to tackle my hair into a deliberate style most of the time. It's so hot here that I have to muster up energy to not go back to bed once I've dropped my kids off at school. I wear my hair in two-strand twists pulled back with a band and when I do take out the twists, I just let it slowly unravel into an uncombed fro-halo as the days go by. To this my mom said, "I hope you haven't been wearing your hair like that to job interviews"!
I've been getting nasty looks from my younger daughter's teacher and she has even pointed out that my daughter's hair needs to be done (because what I've "done" to it is not "done" enough)! I've objected to my girls' hair being tightly corn-rowed. It looks uncomfortable, it is uncomfortable and I won't allow them to suffer because that's what "done" hair looks like. I will admit that I'm struggling with figuring out the best styles for their hair. They both have very different textures and lengths. The little one has very soft, fine hair which breaks easily. Her hair has never been cut but it is still 5ins long. The older one has very coarse, dry texture with a lot of shrinkage. Since I big-chopped all the straightened hair AGAIN, it's just under 4ins!! I presently have three natural heads to manage with a very limited availability of ready-made hair-care products.
Keeping moisture in hair for any length of time is not happening here very well. It is the heart of the dry season at the moment. I've been on the hunt for leave-in conditioners but so far, I haven't had much luck in the local market and supermarkets. My sister found Optimum Oil Therapy 3-n-1 Creme Oil Moisturizer in Tiko (3813) and this is what I have been using as a leave-in moisturizer for my girls. I also try to hydrate every morning before school with some water and coconut oil.
It's the weekend and I have just spent Saturday morning washing and braiding hair. My mom is grateful to have the girls out of her "Kaba" and my dad has a bit of breathing space while I contend with all the question nuances, tantrums and self-assertiveness coming from the girls. I also have to tackle the laundry (by hand) later on. Washing anything is a process since tap water is actually really dirty right now. It's mostly residue/pigment free today so I might just go ahead and wash my hair in the shower. For the girls, I only use ground water from a nearby aquifer borehole for washing, and bottled water for drinking.
I'm planning to start a natural hair country tag on youtube this weekend (assuming I will be able to upload the video since internet service is shytsville here except between 12 am and 5am)! I'm hoping to get a wealth of information from other Cameroonians, or people living in tropical counties like mine. Because of the limited availability of ready-made products, it will be important to learn how to make our own hair products from natural ingredients that seem to be abundant here.
|I think I've got the handle on this cornrow technique!|
|At the train station in Fiango, Kumba. I got reprimanded for taking pictures on the premises without seeking permission. Now I know better. I was really impressed with the renovation on this building.|
|With Sido at Canton restaurant.|
|In Kumba Town with Aunty Eli. Day 2 of unraveled 2 strand twists.|
|With the girls, sporting a fro-halo!|
|My products are Timotei's pure shampoo, TRESemme's Luxurious Moisture conditioner, Naked Style's Little Miracle leave-in conditioner, John Frieda's Frizz-Ease conditioning spray and coconut oil.|
|Hair products for the girls include, Boots baby shampoo, L'Oreal's Kids extra gentle de-tangling conditioner, Optimum Oil Therapy 3-n-1 Creme Oil Moisturizer, Extra virgin olive oil and coconut oil.|